English to Italian Art/Literary Philosophy

I'm translating this for a friend and get stuck so often!

This has happened to me many times around topics related to my experience as a Black woman. It comes up whenever there is a difference in experience due to differences in *societal privilege*. My pain gets decentered. My needs – for simple shared reality with choice about how much pain I stir up and dive into – gets subsumed into the other person’s needs for making sense of the world, for justice, support, and standing up for what’s right.